Aa,
I totally agree with my Respected Teacher that it's so unimportant to think twice about clothes and that too baby clothes which become useless in weeks time. It's amazing to see people giving importance to useless matters. In own dressing also fashion will rule but no sense of what our religion instructs about it or how stupid one is looking trying to act younger.

In day to day life woman who spends hours deciding menu , buying grocery or shouting after servants is thought to be successful but if one minds own business, writes down instructions for servants, decides in minutes a night before what to cook, plans house cleaning routine in a way that there is no need for any argument than one is a failure in our set up.

If we don't lay out the table four times a day and sit aimlessly, eating on top criticising meals it's thought abnormal. Islam gave us such a simple life style which can never burden us in any way but we like to wear chains calling it our culture. We waste time and raise next generation who is equally unaware of how important every minute of our life is and we will be held accountable for it.

I look back and feel so sad at all the wasted time, own fault and others imposing us trying to ensure that it's very normal to do so. It is very very crucial to mark important and unimportant in life as I feel 95% is for sure useless but we opt to live without giving it a second thought as don't want to waste energy sorting it out.

Today's lecture moved me so much and it's nothing but Allah's mercy to have some one like you to guide us.we cherish you. May Allah forgive our short comings and make us extremely useful till the last breath.

By: Nabila Salimi